How tiresome it can be to love someone and they don’t return your feelings. Instead they love someone else the way you love them and that someone else loves someone else, it’s a circle that goes on and on. As Germans quote, a circle is a symbol of infinity, Love is infinite. It can be for one person or for many people in your life.
I totally believe a person can fall in love again and again, provided, the other person is interested in making you fall head over heels for them. If you can find that someone in a lot of people, you can fall in love umpteen times but heartbroken many times of course (every luxury comes with a high price). It’s on the other person if they want to make you fall in love for them. A small patch of conversation can build a strong root of affection, a slight base of attraction can form large amount of trust and one pinch of trust can foster deep love. Actually I think it all comes down to one thing, you love your partner and they love you back, but do you both love each other equally. To be completely honest, every girl wants to find the true, unselfish, unconditional love (Thanks you, Stephanie Mayer for setting up an Edward Cullen benchmark), but to find that unconditional love is a myth, impractical, that doesn’t exist, I agree, you love someone you do anything for them but at the end of the day you have to agree it can’t be perfect all the time. All that crap that “I want a guy who stays up to watch me go to sleep” that’s all crap, that doesn’t happen. In the beginning, he might, but if he stops doing it after a while, will you leave him or you’d think he doesn’t love you anymore, come on girl; he is a human being too. And of course guys are not perfect specimens (except of course Edward Cullen :D ) and I don’t even wanna start on boys shortcomings here, they might block me for humongous extra consumption of space provided. Ha ha
Today I was talking to one of my old friends, she was about to dump her school-sweetheart, why? just because he doesn't pay attention to her anymore and they've been together for around 6 years, yeah I know that's long, change is a nature of life. and I thought it gets better with time. When you move from teens to adults, from schools to college, from playing to hanging out, everything changes and so does your point-of-view, your priorities change from tuition to the salon appointment. so its perfectly normal for a relationship to drift apart. But of course that doesn't mean you stop being together, its just another phase, they come and go. And I am trying to save their relationship just because I know the guy is a real nice and genuine person. In this scenario, the guys change terribly too, of course choices are what makes a person. And they can vary in large magnitude, I wouldn't be surprised if a guy who have been in a love with a girl in school becomes a real jerk after a few years. I was very happy when they met and came across all the hurdles in their life happily. After everything they've been through, they came out bold and strong. But I wouldn't suggest my younger to sister to fall in love that young. Its a mistake, not right now, but definitely, some years later.
All I am here saying is, girls you too should try on a lot of pants before buying a final perfect fit for you. Why should boys have all the fun! Though you better hurry up in recognizing your perfect fit before someone else comes and grabs it before you do. Whoever said “Love ain’t easy” is soo friggin’ right!
WE should always try to learn from other person's experiences, because if you wanna know what's on the road ahead of you, only the person who is coming back from the road can tell you exactly what's at the end of it. Why repeat some one else's mistakes, learn from them and make different mistakes, that should be more fun, isn't it! LOL
There is something about first love that makes you believe in love in the first place but not all first loves are successful, actually strategically the percentage of successful first-loves is very less.
"Well I am waiting cos he is with his first love at the moment, I intend to be his last"- Self
XOXO
I totally believe a person can fall in love again and again, provided, the other person is interested in making you fall head over heels for them. If you can find that someone in a lot of people, you can fall in love umpteen times but heartbroken many times of course (every luxury comes with a high price). It’s on the other person if they want to make you fall in love for them. A small patch of conversation can build a strong root of affection, a slight base of attraction can form large amount of trust and one pinch of trust can foster deep love. Actually I think it all comes down to one thing, you love your partner and they love you back, but do you both love each other equally. To be completely honest, every girl wants to find the true, unselfish, unconditional love (Thanks you, Stephanie Mayer for setting up an Edward Cullen benchmark), but to find that unconditional love is a myth, impractical, that doesn’t exist, I agree, you love someone you do anything for them but at the end of the day you have to agree it can’t be perfect all the time. All that crap that “I want a guy who stays up to watch me go to sleep” that’s all crap, that doesn’t happen. In the beginning, he might, but if he stops doing it after a while, will you leave him or you’d think he doesn’t love you anymore, come on girl; he is a human being too. And of course guys are not perfect specimens (except of course Edward Cullen :D ) and I don’t even wanna start on boys shortcomings here, they might block me for humongous extra consumption of space provided. Ha ha
Today I was talking to one of my old friends, she was about to dump her school-sweetheart, why? just because he doesn't pay attention to her anymore and they've been together for around 6 years, yeah I know that's long, change is a nature of life. and I thought it gets better with time. When you move from teens to adults, from schools to college, from playing to hanging out, everything changes and so does your point-of-view, your priorities change from tuition to the salon appointment. so its perfectly normal for a relationship to drift apart. But of course that doesn't mean you stop being together, its just another phase, they come and go. And I am trying to save their relationship just because I know the guy is a real nice and genuine person. In this scenario, the guys change terribly too, of course choices are what makes a person. And they can vary in large magnitude, I wouldn't be surprised if a guy who have been in a love with a girl in school becomes a real jerk after a few years. I was very happy when they met and came across all the hurdles in their life happily. After everything they've been through, they came out bold and strong. But I wouldn't suggest my younger to sister to fall in love that young. Its a mistake, not right now, but definitely, some years later.
All I am here saying is, girls you too should try on a lot of pants before buying a final perfect fit for you. Why should boys have all the fun! Though you better hurry up in recognizing your perfect fit before someone else comes and grabs it before you do. Whoever said “Love ain’t easy” is soo friggin’ right!
WE should always try to learn from other person's experiences, because if you wanna know what's on the road ahead of you, only the person who is coming back from the road can tell you exactly what's at the end of it. Why repeat some one else's mistakes, learn from them and make different mistakes, that should be more fun, isn't it! LOL
There is something about first love that makes you believe in love in the first place but not all first loves are successful, actually strategically the percentage of successful first-loves is very less.
"Well I am waiting cos he is with his first love at the moment, I intend to be his last"- Self
XOXO
