Sometimes, I sit back and think and say to myself, "What an idiot I was", "What dropped on my head at that time", "I must be mentally challenged back then"
Well today was one of those days.
I was sitting, an average Saturday evening, but suddenly my mind, on its own accord, went into a FLASHBACK.
After a while, my mind was showing me all the silly, stupid things I did in my past. I realized, We all make mistakes. But a useful mistake would be the one in which, instead of regretting we learn something valuable and turn that mistake into a Lesson.
If we keep regretting about something we did wrong, it would only keep us from moving on!
and Moving ahead is as essential as drinking water, trust me.
OK, we did a mistake, we know we did a mistake, we are SORRY we made that mistake, but we can't keep on rubbing that thing in our mind. Somewhere or After Sometime, our subconscious needs to make a little peace with it. Not doing so, would cause depression, inability to take risks and in simple words, it will make it extremely difficult to MOVE ON.
Living with regrets is definitely not healthy for any human being.
More then you guys, I am probably writing this to convince myself more, that, I am not doing anything wrong, if I want to keep my past mistakes at a bay from my regular life. Its good for my present and future both, I guess.
Just by thinking about it, or remembering it, or telling my mind that "I made an awful mistake" every time won't help me in choosing my next step.
So I am gonna let "bygones be bygones"
"Erase the past, Enjoy the present and Embrace the Future"-
^ This quote came into my mind, if you know who is it by please let me know (I am not sure, if these words are exactly used by someone else before, but they fit here well, I guess).
Moving on,
Sincerely yours.
XOXO
Well today was one of those days.
I was sitting, an average Saturday evening, but suddenly my mind, on its own accord, went into a FLASHBACK.
After a while, my mind was showing me all the silly, stupid things I did in my past. I realized, We all make mistakes. But a useful mistake would be the one in which, instead of regretting we learn something valuable and turn that mistake into a Lesson.
If we keep regretting about something we did wrong, it would only keep us from moving on!
and Moving ahead is as essential as drinking water, trust me.
OK, we did a mistake, we know we did a mistake, we are SORRY we made that mistake, but we can't keep on rubbing that thing in our mind. Somewhere or After Sometime, our subconscious needs to make a little peace with it. Not doing so, would cause depression, inability to take risks and in simple words, it will make it extremely difficult to MOVE ON.
Living with regrets is definitely not healthy for any human being.
More then you guys, I am probably writing this to convince myself more, that, I am not doing anything wrong, if I want to keep my past mistakes at a bay from my regular life. Its good for my present and future both, I guess.
Just by thinking about it, or remembering it, or telling my mind that "I made an awful mistake" every time won't help me in choosing my next step.
So I am gonna let "bygones be bygones"
"Erase the past, Enjoy the present and Embrace the Future"-
^ This quote came into my mind, if you know who is it by please let me know (I am not sure, if these words are exactly used by someone else before, but they fit here well, I guess).
Moving on,
Sincerely yours.
XOXO
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