why be

with somebody who can't find a single thing in you worth appreciating.
I mean whats the whole institution of love being the only power transforming ugly into beautiful for that one person in the whole world.
I guess people believed in all that crap, some people still do.

If someone loves you, they should love you no matter what. YES, there is UNCONDITIONAL love, there has to be, I believe that there is. I am sure it will be worth the wait. I mean why tell someone that you love them so that eventually when they fall in love with you, you can't stop annoying them by telling them to change. If there is a single percentage of the change-of-feelings situation, one should own up, instead of making the other person either crazy to the level of insanity or drowning them in the deepest, lowest pit of self-esteem.
It is necessary to feel good no matter what! Each and every human being on this earth is allowed to feel good about themselves. and

"NO ONE can make you feel inferior without your own consent.", The gracious Eleanor Roosevelt said that.

If you feel the person you're with doesn't deserve you or you don't deserve the person you're with, 'fess up and if you can't change and make it work, let it go. Its better than creating complexities and destroying one's personality, so stop,  save your time, look for someone else. 
Stop this stupid Indian mindset that the first person you date is the one you'll spend the rest of your life with, maybe it happens but you know what at least don't commit on the first date. First get to know that person better, than decide if you are compatible and you get along, if you do than well HALLELUJAH! lucky you. You've hit the jackpot. But if not, let it go and Move the hell on to another person. There are plenty of fish in the ocean. 

As there is someone to whom you are as beautiful and charming AS You want it to be, don't waste your time with losers who puts you down just because you are fat or ugly or both because you very well know that YOU ARE NOT.. 

Life!

Isn't that absolutely correct!

I'm sure you might have heard this before, I surely have, but today at some point, It means something to me.

Its totally worth sharing it! 

A valuable lesson learnt (part II) ...

Read this small story; Hope that makes a BIG change in YOU !

At The End Don't Forget To Share It If It Inspires You :)

The Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it.
He held it up for all to see & asked the students "How much do you think
this glass weighs?"

'50 grams!'..... '100 grams!' .....'125 grams' ...the students answered.


"I really don't know unless I weigh it," said the professor, "but, my
question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?"


'Nothing' ...the students said.


'Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor
asked.


'Your arm would begin to ache' said one student.


"You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?"


"Your arm could go numb; you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis &
have to go to hospital for sure!"
... Ventured another student & all the students laughed 

"Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?" Asked the
professor.


'No'.. Was the answer.


"Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?"


The students were puzzled.


"What should I do now to come out of pain?" asked professor again.


"Put the glass down!" said one of the students "Exactly!" said the
professor.


Life's problems are something like this.


Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK.


Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache.


Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do
anything.


It's important to think of the challenges or problems in your life, But EVEN
MORE IMPORTANT is to 'PUT THEM DOWN' at the end of every day before you go
to sleep...


That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh &strong & can
handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!


So, when you start your day today, Remember friend to 'PUT THE GLASS DOWN
TODAY!' Let go of all that is unnecessary.. Wishing you a light new life..

___________________________________________________________________________________________

This story inspired me so much that I had to let the world know,

To all those who are/were, a part of my life in anyway possible, 

"if I did anything wrong to you, today is the last day I am going to think about it. and I suggest you do the same, so from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry, if you can please forgive me"

Lets put the glass down today, shall we, and start a new fresh chapter of our lives. 

XOXO

A valuable lesson learnt..

Sometimes, I sit back and think and say to myself, "What an idiot I was", "What dropped on my head at that time", "I must be mentally challenged back then"
Well today was one of those days.
I was sitting, an average Saturday evening, but suddenly my mind, on its own accord, went into a FLASHBACK. 
After a while, my mind was showing me all the silly, stupid things I did in my past.  I realized, We all make mistakes. But a useful mistake would be the one in which, instead of regretting we learn something valuable and turn that mistake into a Lesson. 
If we keep regretting about something we did wrong, it would only keep us from moving on! 
and Moving ahead is as essential as drinking water, trust me. 
OK, we did a mistake, we know we did a mistake, we are SORRY we made that mistake, but we can't keep on rubbing that thing in our mind. Somewhere or After Sometime, our subconscious needs to make a little peace with it. Not doing so, would cause depression, inability to take risks and in simple words, it will make it extremely difficult to MOVE ON. 
Living with regrets is definitely not healthy for any human being. 
More then you guys, I am probably writing this to convince myself more, that, I am not doing anything wrong, if I want to keep my past mistakes at a bay from my regular life. Its good for my present and future both, I guess. 
Just by thinking about it, or remembering it, or telling my mind that "I made an awful mistake" every time won't help me  in choosing my next step. 

So I am gonna let "bygones be bygones"

"Erase the past, Enjoy the present and Embrace the Future"-  

^ This quote came into my mind, if you know who is it by please let me know (I am not sure, if these words are exactly used by someone else before, but they fit here well, I guess). 

Moving on, 
Sincerely yours.
XOXO